Always on the lookout for reasons to celebrate with a bottle of wine, we’d be remiss if we failed to mention National Coming Out Day on Oct. 11. 
Gay men and lesbians have come a long way since Stonewall, but pressure from family and society can still make it difficult to live a fully open life. So if you have a friend or loved one who came to grips with their sexuality in the last year, make it a point on Sunday to offer your support … and a toast.
What’s the proper drink for celebrating National Coming Out Day? Tough question. The stereotype would be “long necks for lesbians and cosmos for queers” — and if you’ve ever read this blog, you know we never pass up the chance to have fun with a good stereotype.
But if you’re looking for a slightly more thoughtful way to mark the occasion, try this: Take your friend to a wine shop, set a dollar value, and allow them to choose. Whatever they select, you have to drink without judgment and without criticism. Even if they go for a white Zinfandel. Or something in a box. Because really, that’s what National Coming Out Day is all about — the freedom to choose who you want to be without fear of judgment or reprisal.
Whatever your flavor, we salute you. Prost!

The day has been recognized under federal law since 1964, though bankers and mail carriers for 45 years have grudgingly continued to show up for work on Oct. 9. President Barack Obama, perhaps thinking of his favorite Golden Girl, even signed a 
